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Pocket money

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Nimme · 05/01/2006 17:43

I have promised DD1 pocket money (after a long discussion). She is nearly 6 (only) and I don't know how much or little? And what chores do you make them do?

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macwoozy · 05/01/2006 17:53

My 5 year old ds gets £2 a week, I try and get him to clear his toys away but that's about as far as it goes, when he gets older I'll start introdcing more chores.

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Beetrootfultoyourself · 05/01/2006 17:54

None of mine get pocket moeny until they are 7. Then they get £1 per week. At 11 they get £2 per week.

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flashingnose · 05/01/2006 17:54

We're just about to start this for ds (just 7). I'm thinking £1 a week with no strings attached and then using the famous pasta jar to enable him to earn more (or lose some of course).

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twirlaround · 05/01/2006 17:55

My 6 yr old gets £2 a week

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hercules · 05/01/2006 17:56

I should be giving dsnearly 10, 1 pound a week but never seem to get into the habit. Must do so.

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Nimme · 05/01/2006 18:51

I was thinking along the lines of 50p a week and definitely with a chore attached.

Am I really mean and strict??

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nannyme · 05/01/2006 19:11

I don't know when we will start to 'do' pocket money. I can't see myself being that financially organised somehow.

Have done some thinking on this already though and I intend to give the children an amount they can actually do something with as a reward for helping out/chores.

What I mean is, it won't be 20p or something as to be able to afford to buy a treat for themselves they would have to save forever at that rate!

On that basis I kind of feel we should wait a lot longer before we start pocket money and do it when they can learn about managing finances and then i would give them a fiver to clean the car or £20 a week in exchange for their help around the house (doing their laundry, keeping their rooms tidy) on a daily basis. Something like that anyway.

Still not really sure though...

If you are starting now I think £1 a week would be better than 50p but definitely no more than that. One idea I had for starting at a young age was to give enough money that they could treat themselves occasionally as well as buy the presents for their friend's parties. This would be a good way of teaching about financial responsibility early.

My mum and Dad made me earn virtually every penny as a child and rarely gave me more than 20p for a task like car cleaning. I had a paper round at 14 and helped a friend with theirs from age about 11. I had a huge pot of 20 pences with the odd pound coin that was stuck into Birthday cards from my slightly stingy Gran. I used to hoard and hoard that money. Never spent it, really, REALLY valued its worth and now as an Adult I feel so deprived of frivolity that I have a hard time controlling myself when I have money to spend.

My parents still don't treat themselves and my Dad will cut off the mould from Bread and still eat it. This I find utterly strange (but he was a war time baby!) and has definitely NOT helped me truly learn the value of money or how to spend wisely.

Sorry if I am going off topic with an account of my freaky family - thought it might be a warning to anyboy that thinks stingyness is good!!!

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Nimme · 12/01/2006 17:12

Thanks all,

Have decided upon £1/week with no chores attached but must buy own treats now or save up for something special.

Hopefully it'll work......

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Sherbert37 · 12/01/2006 17:23

We always said pm was not to be spent on sweets -they get a sweet on Saturday. Means it is not wasted. £1 up to age 9, then £1.50. £2 age 10. £15 per month at 11. £20 a month a 12 - not got beyond that. Elder two have to withdraw from the cashpoint which curbs spending. Don't personally like earning / deducting money as it seems so mercenary.

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