I definitely find that if I am feeling tired, pre-menstrual or just a bit down in the dumps my 3 year old daughter can sense it and acts much more disruptively - it just becomes a vicious circle between the 2 of us!
I firmly believe that the only way to deal with tantrums is to use diversion and negotiation so they end up doing mundane activities without really realising it - ie brushing teeth, putting shoes on etc! This is tiring, draining and at the moments when it doesn't work, frustrating so losing your rag seems the only thing left to do! If anyone can offer any alternatives to 'counting to 10' when you feel like you are going to lose it with your kids then let me know because I've never heard anything so unrealistic in my life!!!
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Sarby · 17/05/2001 08:53
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