This is a difficult one, but I'd really appreciate some advice on this.
We moved into our house just under 2 years ago. Our neighbours were noisy right from the beginning, but we have put up with it. She has a son from a previous marriage (21 and training to be a DJ, Lord help us!) and she also has a little girl with her current partner. Now the little girl is 8 years old and we used to invite her into our house as she was interested in the baby. I soon found out that she could neither read nor right, but she wasn't a bad kid, a bit mithering, but if you were firm with her, she was ok.
In the summer we were invited to a BBQ by the said neighbours and I went along. The mum confided that the little girl had been diagnosed with ADD and was now on Ritalin. I was quite shocked as my mum fosters kids and this girl was in no way worse than the kids my mum had (has). She was full of energy but not over the top. The family have always been loud and we have often heard them shouting at her and she has given as good as she gets.
During the BBQ the mother and father drunk copious amounts (nothing wrong with that I hear you say) but they were giving her Red Bull to drink! She had about 3 cans whilst I was there. At about midnight my dh came for me, I was reluctant to leave as their little girl was disturbing me. She was very tired, wrapped up in a blanket on the sofa whilst all around her adults were drinking and making lewd jokes, etc. Her mum even said to me "I don't know how you can do that, I never have the patience to spend any time with her". After that night we vowed to have nothing more to do with them.
The problem is that I have heard them come in drunk a few times, about 1, 2am and the little girl has got up and is screaming and running around. They have had parties at 4am and I have clearly heard her with them. Tonight I have just got ready for bed, it is 10.55pm and I heard her crying. I listened in and heard the father shouting at her, swearing, etc and the little girl was crying for her mummy. It really upset me but I don't know what is going on and I don't know what to do about it. Am I just being paranoid?
Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated.
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LisaV · 19/01/2002 22:55
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