Hi, DD is now 3.5 and have just had the 'are we going to have another' conversation with hubby for about the 20th time! As an only, I'd always said I would have more than one but now, i had a tough time with DD and the only reason i would have another would be out of guilt for DD not having a sibling. Straw broke llama's back today as only remaining mum-of-1 at DD's ballet class announced her pregnancy and gave reason as providing DD with a sibling so not lonely etc etc. How crap did I feel? I cried most of family holiday at easter as could only see families with more than one at our hotel and felt a complete failure. Wisdom says that as an only I will know how to make things easier for dd. I thought this would get easier with time but maybe because I thought for 30years that i'd always have more than 1, its a bit of a mindset to get out of? Sorry, ramble ramble. Also to make matters worse dd is going through a 'i'm lonely' phase and not liking being in her bedroom by herself. i'm considering a hamster or something keep her company in there? I know you lovely girls are probably fed up of hearing same thing and i have read previous threads...just wanted a personal rant/sob online .
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apologies for 'same old' worries but support needed, confused.
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CurlyWurlyGirly · 02/05/2009 20:25
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