or just support i don't know. i don't have a problem as such. or rather, a lot of people wouldn't see it as a problem!
i have one ds 16 months. dh would like another dc, not this year, we have discussed this. we've said we'll talk about it next year. absolutely no pressure.
so why do i feel pressure?
I had a fairly difficult delivery (but nothing i wouldn't go through again). I think it's the though of two kids of pre school age that frightens the life out of me.
I would love ds to have a sibling but just have an overiding fear of having to spend another year of maternity leave with another child. it's boring and i'm knackered, and ds sleeps through! maybe i'm not meant for more than one child but then feel really guilty. it's not fair to ds to have no brothers or sisters is it?
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JacquelineBouvier · 19/04/2009 00:38
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