Well i thought i was doing really well...dd is nearly 7 and seemed very happy and content being an only child ....until this week...when i got the....I would like a sister...
i have explained to C before how lucky we were to have her given my age....I fell pregnant at 40 (not planned)...also explained that mummy did not have any eggs left...thought it the best way to explain why it was not possible (I'm 48).
What seems so silly is that it never once crossed my mind about having another...infact i couldn;t understand why anyone would want to go through childbirth twice having been through it once....although I do now!
I really feel for dd now....although i don;t think for one moment I could have gone through child birth twice.... I am not at all maternal....I love dd to bits but the first 12 months was tough... being an acidental parent.
Anyone else found themselves in this situation?
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lottysmum · 11/03/2009 21:58
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