I'm really struggling today with what to do and am hoping for your pearls of wisdom.
I have one lovely DS - 16 months old. I found the first 6 months really hard but the last 10 months have been great and I love him very much.
DH is an only, and over the last couple of months we have been talking about having another baby. Maybe. I am in two minds about it and have been really struggling with deciding. In many ways I am happy with one and I am not too keen to go through the first few months again.
Then last night DH said 'Ultimately it is up to you. I am happy with one. I can see the benefits of one. I will also love number two if that's what you want to do. Ultimately I want what makes you happy' and although that sounds nice I'm now really struggling with having to make the decision on my own. How on earth do I decide???
I really do not intend to offend anyone who wants another but can't, or whose DH does not want another, so please accept apologies in advance if you are offended.
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LittleOneMum · 29/01/2009 11:36
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