What was the deciding factor ( If chosen.)

[superstarheartbreaker]

Dd is the light of my life but ive always been very selfish and independent and I realise that more than ever now im on a holiday with her and we have to kids stuff which really is not my idea of holiday time.
Shes wilful and I have to compromise too much.

[Misfitless]

What's your question, OP?

Is it, "What was the deciding factor in sticking with one child?"

How old is your DD?

[superstarheartbreaker]

Yes...that was the qiestion.