i have ds age 9 from a previous relationship, and my bf has 3 teenagers age 15-20. i brought ds up on my own juggling part time job. im now nearly 30 and currently studying. by the time my ds starts secondary school in 2 years i will be finished my first part of studying and will be able to work full time with a half decent wage.
ive now started thinking i want another baby. my bf really doesnt, but i really do. the only thing is it would throw out all my plans for my career which i have been waiting to be in a position to have for years and its finally within reach. I can't commit to the career i want if i have another baby and it would involve struggling all over again for another 7-8 years.
I just can't make a decision about what i want more. my ds really wants a bro or sis even though they will be a lot younger. I just don't know what to do. has anyone been through similar?
my bf is against the idea but im trying to work out what i want at the moment.
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juicychops · 25/05/2014 17:15
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