I'm about 90% sure I don't want to have any more children.
Terrible pregnancy, stressful labour and PND. Despite all this, I have a sweet, lovely, bright and beautiful DD and I love her to death. I know everyday gets better, but I find being a mum hard work {understatement of the century} and feel that, if I'm such a stressed out basket case of a mother now, there's no way I'll be able to manage another. Plus, DD won't remember my PND with her; she'd most certainly experience it firsthand if I had another baby.
Nevertheless, everyone, DH included, anticipates me having more. More so now because we are moving, and DH wants at least 3 bedrooms for "our next one." I've told him that I don't think I want any more, and he brushes it off by saying we don't need to decide if and when right now.
Everyone else says not to be ridiculous, of course we'll have more, I'll regret it if I don't.
So, my question to you is-What were your deciding factors? Do you regret it? How did your partner feel?
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MummyBeerest · 20/03/2014 18:27
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