Daughter is 12, only child. It's always been the case at Primary school that we always had friends back for tea, I would be the one arranging for friends to come round at weekends and have sleepovers. It was not really reciprocated back then, I assumed it was because parents were too busy with their young kids and the siblings keeping each other company was easier than having mine over to play as well. I never wanted to believe they thought I was after their kid's company as we only had one child. Now I'm not so sure. Now she is at secondary school and it has continued. She is popular and has lots of friends, some who live close by. But again, she never seems to be invited to their houses. In my mind it should be simple parenttal good manners that if your kid gets invited to tea, you invite back. Even the following month would be OK, but nothing. We are a good family, both work, nice house, they always seem to have fun, but I don't get it. I worry that we are too keen and should hold back on inviting to our house, but she needs her friends. It's only mybe once a fortnight she arranges for someone to come over - not every day. Has anyone else felt like this. Daughter does not think like this and I have not discussed with her, Hubby thinks I'm paranoid. any other mums feel this way?
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sarahdotsarah · 26/02/2014 15:22
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