Hello,
DH and I have a wonderful but challenging 2.5 year old DS. We both work full time as doctors in busy jobs with on call commitments. The latter makes childcare arrangements a nightmare much of the time as we have no family locally (have moved where the junior doctor jobs system sent us!).
DS is a very lively little boy who didn't take a bottle (BF to 18mo) ever, first slept through at 16mo and has cow's milk protein and soya allergies. The latter is the bane of my life and I was desperate for it to not be true initially (he was loosing weight despite eating +++) and now desperate for him to grow out of it. All this means we are still exhausted. I had post natal depression but am much improved now, still on medication though.
Anyway, all DS's friends of the same age now either have siblings or their mummies are pregnant. I feel somehow that I have done something wrong! Part of me really wants another baby for a few reasons (general feeling of not being complete, worries about DS being lonely/spoilt) but DH is less sure (mainly work and logistics related) and would like to send DS to independent schools. This means if we had another we would be pushed financially for 2 to be independently educated. DH is not willing to budge on this - I have made all other big decisions since we got together and am respecting this is his choice, although I'm a bit uncomfy with it at times.
DH is an only child who never missed not having siblings. I have one sister 5yrs younger who I have never got on with - this is just due to being different in personality!
Any advice??
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Portlypenguin · 30/01/2014 16:22
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