I have a perfect 21 month old boy after undergoing IVF. I have 3 frozen blastocysts remaining. My husband would like another child because he has a traditional view of "the family". I, however, dont think I want to go through it all again for the reasons below:
- We still dont live in our own home and are living in a rented house which upsets me (we own small flats we need to sell first and are struggling). I need to keep working to raise more of a deposit.
- Ive been told I could be made redundant in a year's time and have been offered a very good opportunity to work for my employer as a consultant. If I get pregnant I'm not sure I could take the time out and maintain that arrangement.
- I'm just beginning to get my life back as DS gets easier to entertain. He was a very high maintenance baby and I was shattered.
- I'm 41 and feel too tired to give another child the energy it needs. I seem to get every virus going at the moment and I'm not sure if I would cope with two.
Am I being selfish?