Hi all,
I have a daughter about to turn 3, since she turned 1-1.5yrs I have been wanting no2. I have always longed for 2-3 children where as my partner is set on just having the 1. This is killing me inside! Ive tried to talk to him about how it makes me feel the thought if knowing I wont have anymore children but this doesnt phase him and says a simple sorry I dont want anymore Ive heard all the reasons under the sun to why we shouldnt have another. I want to go back into education and get my career on track which will be a 5 year course and a worry in that time he mind change his mind and want another (its happened before where he has said "we can try in 6 months" but then changes his mid again) in 5 years my daughter will be coming up 8 and I worry about starting again after 8 yrs! Its such a large age gap and ideally I wanted 2-3year gap. It breaks my heart & I dont know how to cope. To make matters worse when I was a teen I got caught pregnant and felt the only way to complete college was to have a T but now I forever think "what if?" Knowing I now cant have the 2-3 children I dream of. It make me break down I feel I need to speak to someone to learn to accept this and deal with my feelings. Has anyone been in a similar situation & how have you learnt to cope?x
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AbbyH · 07/05/2013 20:53
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