We're moving house (work relocation) and have identified a village and school with a place for our DS (reception) and are now trying to decide what type of area to live in.
All the houses we have fallen in love with are rural (about 1-2 miles away from the centre of the village and the primary school). While living in these locations would provide an idyllic childhood (they are all period properties with land etc), I feel we should live in the centre of the village, so DS could play out with his friends as he grows older, rather than me having to arrange playdates and driving him everywhere (although I don't mind the driving part).
DH says that he couldn't bear to live on a modern estate (unfortunately the very few 'non-estate' houses in the village never come up for sale). Plus, he says, in rural areas, lots of the children live a fair distance from their school, so parents are used to ferrying children around for playdates and it won't 'disadvantage' DS in any way. He thinks I'm being very PFB about the whole thing. The thing is, if we had two children, I would buy a house in the country without hesitation, as that is our preference, and we can easily afford to. But having an only child is making me hesitate. He's a very sociable lad, but I would hate for our decision to lead to him having a lonely childhood.
Does anyone have any experience or thoughts about this?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Got questions about only having one child? Find the answers here.
One-child families
Living rurally with an only child?
8 replies
mahonga · 17/05/2012 21:17
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.