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was thinking of upping hours my DD goes to play school but feel bad...

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xenabelly · 09/02/2007 22:58

hi all

Not sure if I'm just being hormonal or not as gave birth to DS 3 weeks ago.

Situation is that DD (aged 3 just!) currently goes to play school 2 mornings a week. She doesn't 'love' it but goes in without complaint and seems fairly happy and content.

Had a new baby 3 wks ago and DD has been lovely to him but am finding it very hard to keep her entertained and look after him. Also hubby works from home and is currently getting no work done as it's total mayhem in our house at moment and DD demands attention all the time.

Was thinking that she is so energetic that maybe she'd be better and more stimulated with an extra day at play school, however, was chatting this over with my mum and she said 'aww, it's a shame isn't it, sending her away' !!?? SENDING HER AWAY !! cue - massive guilt trip and now I feel like I'm just doing it to 'get rid of her' cos she is so exhausting.

She's not naughty, just 3yrs old and I love her to bits.

What do you all think?

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Spoo · 09/02/2007 23:12

When My DS2 was born, DS 1 was happy to go to nursery. I think it was because things were changing so much at home that at nursery things were consistent. He also got to do things that he couldn't do at home such as painting, play doh, water play. I don't think that you are being unreasonable. My mum always says things like that without thinking. I think if your daughter enjoys it she will be happy to go. It will give her time off from being round the baby as well. Also if you are exhausted and ratty with her she won't benefit. She will benefit from a rested and happy mum. Second time mothering is loads more guilt ridden as you have to split your time between the two. Try not to get to worried about making the right decision - you can always reduce her hours later on when you feel more in control.

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colditz · 09/02/2007 23:23

You're not sending her away. Do it, you will really appreciate it. To be honest, she probably won't even notice that she goes an extra day!

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