Have posted before about DS and the troubles we've been having with trying to get him clean. Bit of background- chronic constipation, has been on movicol now for over a year. Up until 2 months ago would be going all, (numerous, small) poos in his pants. Now doing main one in the toilet with lessening shouting/screaming/crying. Still denies needing to go, and has always got done poo in his pants between getting him trying to hold it in and me actually getting him on the toilet.
He was at the nursery attached to the school my eldest attends, and although I was reluctant for him to start there last September, I went along with it, with much encouragement from the school itself, saying the peer pressure would help to sort it out, and that they would always change him when necessary. Now, after nearly 3 months there, they can't cope with him, and I don't blame them- only 2 staff for 26 children, and they need to change him up to 3 times a day.
The head called a meeting and has said they still want him there, but clean and can I take him out of school for a week so sort it out. I've been on leave from work do have been able to have him. Not much improvement.
I am by myself- his dad is blaming me for not having trained him early enough. He is keen to keep him there after this week, but I can't see this improving in such s short time, and they can't keep his place open indefinitely. The school have been really good about it, and I know it's a completely different setup to day care.
What to do? New nursery? Childminder? I'm spinning because he absolutely HAS to get this by Sept. I work part time and am back next week.
Any help, similar experiences, I'd be so grateful. And thanks if you've read this far!
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funkypigeon · 15/01/2013 20:34
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