Hi there,
This post is regarding my son who is going to nursery since Sep'12. During the first few days at nursery, he used to cry a lot everyday when I left him there, but he became okay, after me leaving. Finally after around 2 weeks, he started waving bye to me and was by his teacher's side whenever I left him.
He is very fine with going to nursery, and wants to be there even on weekends, BUT the problem is he does not play with other kids. He is too shy when he has to play with other kids. He is perfectly fine when I am around, or with his teachers. When I leave him at the nursery, he does not like to join a kids group table, rather, he likes to hang around with the teacher. When we wait for the teacher to open the door at 12.30, all the kids would be running around outside, whereas, my son would never do that. He likes to run only when we are the first to reach there. His teacher started a group activity at the nursery, with similar shy kids, and she says, he is improving, but very slowly. He is taking his own sweet time.
His teacher started giving his stickers whenever he started playing with other kids, I feel that has also given him some kind of motivation. At home, when kids come to our home, when when we go to park, he plays well, but that time, his sister would also be there. He loves playing with his sister and plays really well with her.
To tell about him, he is a very bright kid. He does jigsaw puzzles so quick. He can do a brand new 100 piece puzzle all by himself. He will be 4 yrs in May. And, he is very good at drawing and colouring. He can draw characters and can colour without crossing the boundaries. He can sing and dance too, Gangnam stlye, his favourite.
Another thing to add is, our home language is an Indian language, and not English. Since we came from India only a year back, my son does not know much English. We try to speak more English to him at home, he can understand what we speak and what his teachers say, but can respond back only very little.
I do not know whether his poor English is also a problem, for him not speaking to other kids and for his shy behaviour.
If any of you had had similar problems, please let me know. Let me know your suggestions and any tips. I know some of you may think of Autism etc etc, and no mom would even want to think about it, but I am very confident in saying that he is a very very bright and intelligent kid.
Thanks a lot for your time and help. It is highly appreciated.
Best Regards.
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Bappus · 12/01/2013 17:59
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