Co-Bedding

[AREMum]

Hi Guys,

Was in the hairdressers yesterday (first time in 6 months...)and read article about mumsnet (specifically about eyeing up the male totty on CBeebies) in Red magazine, and felt inspired to get in touch.

Anyway, am mum of 4 yr old boy and 4 month old non-id twin girls. The twins are sleeping though the night, but are in the same cot.

I kind of feel if they are sleeping though and are happy during the day and eating well etc then it's all okay, but DH wants them in their own cots (we have space and spare cot)I also have a friend with twins around the same age as mine and they are in their own cots. What do you think? Am I wise to adopt the "if it ain't broke don't fix it" approach or am I scarring them for life????

ARE Mumxx

[hertsnessex]

I think you have to go with your gut instinct. dont feel bad for putting them in a cot, and dont feel bad for wanting them with you. there may be bigger reasons your dh wants his wife back!

Cx

[AREMum]

Sorry, I wasn't very clear, they are in their own room, but the same cot. As for the other, he can whistle...!

[Overrun]

Mine shared a cot until they were 6 months, fwiw, then there were too big really . Welcome, and try our Paolo thread, its a chat thread for multiple mums

[hertsnessex]

aaahhh, now i see! i would say leave them, why move them?, but i dont have twins