I have 3 year old twins and a 2 year old and most of my friends have only the one child. I'm really finding going out to playparks or other people's houses on playdates hard lately as we seem to be such a rabble in comparisson. My kids are your normal 2 and 3 year olds not spiteful or unkind but quite vocal and at various levels of the pushing the boundaries stage. By the time I get my lot out of the car into hats, gloves etc everybody else is getting a bit tired of waiting for us. I then always seem to be dealing with some kind of altercation, 1 wanting to be carried, 1 wanting to be out of the pushchair, 1 in etc,etc. Tears are often involved(not mine-yet) and the whole experience seems pretty fraught. It's getting to the stage when I dread invites as it doesn't seem so embarrassing when you're coping with it all on your own. I know it shouldn't let it get to me but it does as I know they're good kids, they just have to cope with sharing mummy and endless waiting for my attention. A couple of my friends have even started doing things separately as 1 said it was easier-yes it did hurt my feelings!!! Does anyone else experience this and if so how do you cope with it???
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Coping with playdates when you have 3 under 3!!!!
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MilaMae · 04/01/2007 16:56
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