After a year of feeling like I'm doing alright as a twin mum the last month has been a bit of a shocker. I had the idea that my b/g twins would start to self wean from b/feeding, esp at night and that I might start to get a decent stretch if sleep (no sign of this yet...).
But, also, I thought that now my nct friends have gone back to work I should get out there and go to groups to meet new mums and give my dts a chance to play with new toys and make friends.
What I hadn't really thought about was:
- Getting dts from buggy into library, church hall, children's centres etc is a bloody nightmare. As is getting them back in at the end.
- A lot of these groups seem really cliquey (not all, I have met some lovely parents/ minders)
- The stress of trying to keep an eye on 2 at once (and they're not walking yet) makes me very sweaty and sometimes a bit weepy too.
4)all the time spent needing a wee/drink/tissue but not having a chance to do or get anything without fear of dts either hurting or getting hurt.
- I can't actually have a conversation with anyone so am not making any friends.
I think that I need to be a bit more assertive and ask people for help - I'm working on this but does anyone have any tips on how to do groups with twins?