Just venting really.
SIL recently had her first baby (7 weeks old) and I have an 8year old DS and B/G twins 6 months old.
Was all at MIL yesterday and SIL left to go home and MIL was saying how well she was doing and how besotted she is with her DD and then went on to say how good she was that she has never asked MIL to babysit so she can sleep (MIL often babysat in early days of twins so I could do nights. DP didn't do anything at night) and was praising her for not having any signs of baby blues or PND (I was diagnosed with PND within 2 weeks of having DTwins).
I'm probably being touchy but I can't help feeling compared. It's not a fair comparison. SIL has plenty of non sleeping breaks to have hair, nails and various other treatments done and to run errands.
I feel frustrated and that having Twins will always make me look unorganised and barely coping even without the PND.
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Comparison by MIL between me and SIL... Twins are a whole different ball game...
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Goandplay · 30/08/2013 13:47
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