Hi, Not sure where to post this but I'm in an utter panic. I have gorgeous 3.5 year old twin girls who are going to school in Sept. I work part time in corporate world v pressured but I like it. Life has been getting so much easier as the girls have got older, we have more time, more money and I'm thinking about going back to work more hours so I can kick start my career again rather than treading water with it IYSWIM.
However, I've just found out I'm pregnant! I am in denial if I'm honest so is DP. I told him 2 days ago and he hasn't mentioned it since, neither have I. I will be 42 in the Summer and feel too old for it ( although I'm not saying 42 too old to have a baby - just how I feel - I think I've aged a lot since having the twins!). I'm quite embarrassed to have an unplanned pregnancy at this age. I know the odds are around 50/50 as to whether this will turn into anything viable so I'm trying not to get too attached/worried/excited but tbh it's hard to concentrate on anything now.
We don't even have a car! I don't know how we'll cope with 3. I didn't really want to be pregnant again ( I've already had a m/c since the twins) . Relationship with DP can be rocky at times. I need to work but what will this do to my chances of continuing to work?
Has anyone had a singleton after twins? ( particularly anyone at slightly older end of the scale :-) ) How was it? How did it work out for your family?
Keen to hear any experiences. Thanks
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daffodil71 · 12/02/2013 10:11
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