We did an IVF and got a positive.
I had bad dreams the night before the first scan. But I thought those were just fears...they usually don't come true, right?
We went to the clinic today for the scan and saw the embryo, it was 7 mm- an OK size but when we tried to listen to the heartbeat - we didn't hear anything. The doctor says it is very uncommon for an embryo of 6 weeks and 6 days - but he said we could wait a week and see if we hear something next week. But we see already that he was not very hopeful. I tried to prepare myself for the worse already but couldn't help and break down because deep inside I already know it won't be going well.
I cried all the way home. When we got home, I started bleeding- not just some spotting but continuous bleeding. I called the clinic and went back to my doctor and he said if it's a lot...it is already aborting.
That being said - the next step is to have my uterus "washed". We decided to go ahead with it since we were already there anyway.
We just thought, we will start over, will try again when my body is ready.
In the back of my head, I am still thinking ,should we have waited for a week to see if the pregnancy could be saved or was the bleeding really a sign of miscarriage?
Please if you have went throught this, please help me clear my doubts.
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MommaWannabe · 05/08/2009 02:55
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