I have just found out that an ex work colleague went for her 20 week scan and the baby did not have a heartbeat. I have moved from the area and am pregnant myself. We had only found out about each others pregnancies last week. I want to be there for her but am not sure she will want to hear from me as I am pregnant. I thought of sending her a card to say that I am here and thinking of her and then following the card up in a few weeks time with an orchid and a card, then maybe a phone call. I don't want to ignore that this has happened as I feel that is worse but I don't want to be insensitive. Can anyone give me any advice please?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Find support and share your experiences on our Miscarriage forum.
Miscarriage/pregnancy loss
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.