Hello
My sister was due to have her 20 week scan today but yesterday woke with spotting so went to hospital for scan and they told her there was no heart beat. Because she had not eaten they offered her d&c straight away so she had it done.
I feel so so bad for her - life can be so cruel!
Why?
Everything was fine at her 12 week scan, nothing picked up, her last midwife app was fine too.
Has this happened to anyone, do you know what factors could have contributed towards it and have you gone onto conceive and give birth after?
She did say at her last smear there were abnormal cells which turned out to be harmless. Her pregnancy was not planned but was delighted when she found out. The nurse said that they rec you have abonormal cells removed if trying to conceive.
I just feel so sorry for her and the next few months are going to be so painful for her especially when she see's new borns or pregnant people. She has a lovely bump that was quite big. It seems so unfair!
I know she needs time to mourn and let her body and mind come to terms with losing this little person we never got to know. But part of me thinks that if she fell pregnant before she was due to give birth that it would help her cope. That date is going to be so hard for her.
Does this mean she has a higher chance of it happening again?
Thank you
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Sister lost baby at 20 weeks - what now?
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outandabout · 08/05/2009 21:45
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