so so sad please help

[michelle7744]

hi today is the day i go in hospital and start medical management i would be 14+5 now they say my baby stopped growing at 10 weeks so its most likely that the heat stopped then and no signs of anythin happining naturally yet so they have advised to start medical managment now but i still have all signs of pregnancy the sickness sore boobs even a positive pregnancy test can anyone tell me is this right does anybody know plz help
xxxxxxx

[VJay]

I think the positive pg test is normal. The hormones are still in your system, they were after my 2 mc's, but you can ask for another scan before they start anything. My hospital offered me a 2nd scan, just to reassure me.
I'm so sorry xxx

[Daynee]

michelle - I'm so sorry. This is a very tough time I know. Is this your first mc? I just recently had my 3rd and luckily it all got out of my system within 2 weeks. It's terrible that you still have symptoms, like it isn't bad enough this has happened but now your body is still "pregnant" and you have to wait...IF there is anything I've learned, it's that the waiting is the suckiest part of it all.
Please keep us posted. And keep hoping...you will be okay.xoxo

[michelle7744]

well been in had my first course of medication back on wed to finish,this is my 2nd mmc the last one was nearly 5 years ago i was 22 weeks we have been trying for this baby since then i think that is whats making it so hard we tried so long and for this to happen again is just heartbreaking not sure if i could cope with another but we so despiratly want a baby
xxxx

[MadamAnt]

I'm so sorry. That sounds incredibly hard for you

[SpringBlossom]

Michelle, I am so sorry to read about what you are going through. It just doesn't seem fair that this should happen to you again. Try not to think about what next for a little while - what you're going through is really really hard and takes time to come to terms with (if you ever can). Thinking of you xxxx

[wasabipeanut]

Michelle I'm so terribly sorry you are going through this. I am also awaiting medical management because my baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. Sometimes for reasons nobody seems to understand the hormone levels can sometimes stay high even when the baby stops growing - hence positive tests, sickness etc. It's incredibly cruel.

They will prob scan you again anyway before starting medical management and if not you should certainly ask.

So sorry. x