Hi all...looking for ideas on how to cope/ stop milk production/ what might happen if I don't milk myself. They gave me a pill on wednesday but it isn't working and the googling I've done on 'helps' contradicts each other. Am in an OK calmer mood the last few hours but the milk is setting me off ... I need a break from crying as does my poor family, we are so raw.
Last Thurs we were getting excited about preparing for the arrival of our longed-for baby girl in a few months, as we'd thought we'd reached the 'safe' zone and I was still passing all the weekly specialist diabetic clinic checks with flying colours (been type 1 since I was a teen). Found out during horriffic 1st preg 4 yrs ago that I have a heart shaped (or this time they think poss 2 separate mini) womb, all makes me a bit 'interesting' in the preg dept. And took 4 years each time to get preg. So am closely monitored.
But my scan showed a problem, and on Friday we were told she had developed this incurable massive brain defect, probably not due to my diabetes, and was unlikely to make it. Basically the holes in her head were so large it meant she had the back half of her brain missing and she was moving less and less daily.
Wednesday (ie 5 days later, 2 days ago) we went into the delivery ward, and knowing there was no happy outcome is the worst thing I have ever had to do. Am thankful the labour/delivery wasn't actually as bad as I expected. Just so so sad....and now scared for p.m. results incase its something that might happen again and thats my last chance.
I'm sure we'll be OK, I have an amazing 5 yr old son and know many don't even have that after losing a baby, but really this milk thing is the straw I don't want now. I haven't slept much since this all started last Thurs but feel I could now if the throbbing would ease.... and think I'll go mad if I can't get some rest and sore boobs seem to be the stupidest thing to set me off :( xxx
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Wildcatfin · 27/04/2013 00:56
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