Had a private scan on 12th April where I was told the baby had probably died a week and a half before (I had had a scan 2 weeks previously when I thought I was 8 weeks, but I measured 7 and while there was a heartbeat, it was low, I knew something was up, as I knew when I conceived).
So, I have been waiting ever since. I went to the hospital on tuesday to get the ball rolling just incase. As my previous scans were private and this was an NHS hospital, they have to do their own scans a week apart. Even the dr I saw said it was madness, my private scans were done by an extremely good consultant with far superior machines to the ones they have at the hospital, but it's NHS policy. WHich I don't mind, as it's bought me another week. Well more really, as I have booked to go in for the next scan next friday.
I have no signs of anything happening. No cramping, no bleeding, nothing. I have even tried acupuncture and reflexology to try and get it moving.
All my pregnancy symptoms are long gone, I feel absolutely great infact (I feel terrible during pregnancy).
I am terrified of the surgical procedure. I had a terrifying reaction to GA when I was a child.
The dr I saw said I could have pills, but that at the size everything was, he wouldn't recommend it, as the risk of haemorrhage was so high.
I just want things to happen on their own, but it doesn't seem like it's going to. I am ok with losing the baby now, I have grieved and got over it, I am just worried about myself.
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I've been waiting for weeks now and I am not coping
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hotcrosbum · 26/04/2013 08:21
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