A year ago today

[FoofFighter]

Lost my little Widget

Love you always

[escorpion]

Sending you love xx

[LadyKinbote]

So sorry. Hope you have some RL support x

[IslaValargeone]

xxx

[FoofFighter]

nobody has remembered, not even my oh. Feel strange being upset when I have a baby kicking away in my stomach, would like it to go away just for today so I can think in peace if that makes sense?

[escorpion]

Bless you. My anniversary will be 14th February of all days. Not sure how I am going to handle it to be honest. My DH didn´t understand how much it affected me until I hysterically wept one day. Is there something you could do to commemorate? Or write your thoughts down? x

[escorpion]

I just wanted to add it is hard as other people do forget with time, and it hurts so I know how you feel. I think my DH became detached very quickly from the situation. I think people think once it is over we are just going to get on with it. But everyone deals with it in different ways.

[FoofFighter]

I'd understand him forgetting in time, but not this first one we had a row this afternoon (his fault entirely I might add) and he left me on my own in town.
anyway when I got home I said in case you forgot it's today, then went to bed in tears and he didn't bother to come and comfort me. Sat and played COD. Really not impressed I have to say.

thank you for talking to me x

[stacey212528]

Oh Foof, just saw this :( thoughts are with you. You know where we all are if you want to talk. All the unmumsnetty hugs I can muster are sent for you. xxx

[escorpion]

Thats really crappy then hun that your DP is acting in this way, I am so so sorry. Talk to us about it all you like.

[Schooldidi]

I'm sorry Foof :(

It's mine on Monday. I don't expect dp to remember, I don't expect anyone to remember.

[FoofFighter]

Thanks all, feeling better today although things are still frosty.

Stacey I know but everyone is so happy I don't want to bring it down which is why I didn't mention it, not that I didn't think I wouldn't be supported xx
Jodidi I was also thinking of all our sad little group of sacked Nov 12's who will be in this position right about now sending love and hugs to you for tomorrow

[LadyKinbote]

Schooldidi Hope you're okay today x

[Schooldidi]

Thanks for your concern Lady. I'm fine I think. I've been busy all day, took the kids out for the morning with friends, then my parents came and collected both dds for a sleepover, then went for a walk, now we're having a cosy quiet evening without any children.

Nobody else has remembered that it's a year ago today, but that's ok, it's not really their grief.

[WildeRumpus]

Hey foof. Hope you ok. Haven't been on this board for months but like you the mc anniversary is coming up and was such a sad time. I definitely don't expect dh remember or really care too much if I.reminded him. I think he would feel.for what I went thru with.it all tho.

Glad this one is kicking away for you!

[wifey6]

foof & sadly so many others of you, so sorry for the pain you are going through. 1 year today we had our 12+ week scan to be told our baby had stop growing at 7+4 weeks - on Wednesday will be a year that I laid my precious baby to rest.
Spent this weekend in tears, yet feeling so blessed for my baby who is kicking & growing inside me x
My thoughts, love & prayers are with you all x