I found out last week that I had a MMC around 8 weeks (measuring around 6 weeks apparently). My previous scan had shown a slow heartbeat and I was expecting the worst but the shock was still unbearable. I'd had some light spotting which has completely stopped now. I was offered a D&C but I couldn't decide what to do and I'm still no better off. I have to go back to EPU next week and if it hasn't happened naturally then I'll have to choose a procedure.
I am, like most women in this situation, terrified of anaesthetic and risks despite them being minimal and terrified of it happening naturally while my DC is around. My DH is being brilliant about all of this and wants to support me whatever I choose, secretly I think he wishes I'd book in for a D&C, and honestly it's only pure fear stopping me.
That was our last chance for another DC really. I'm in my 40's with a chronic (but manageable) condition. It was a surprise after all these years. I stopped contraception a couple of years after DC was born and never conceived until now. I had stopped thinking it was possible and had just accepted it - I'm so deliriously happy with DC I have. This MC has just left me shocked and horrified and I feel rather lonely.
Just thought I'd write this down and put it out there. It's been a great help reading experiences on this board over the last week.
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MMC - am I mad to wait for this to happen naturally?
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Snoopingforsoup · 05/03/2013 09:51
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