Hi, I seem to go going through and real miserable patch in my life. I'm 45, married with two boys (15 yrs and 5 yrs). I seem to be having one long period at the moment. Then it will stop for about 3 to 7 days then start again. I'm feeling very down and unattractive, very un-desirable. Down right ugly to be honest with no sexdrive. Over the last year I've gained to bit of weight which doesn't help, so none of my clothes fit.
Anyway, I believe that I maybe starting the early stages of menopause; I do get very hot where as before I didn't, I've been told I'm moody and miserable all the time, off/on periods and generally life being to much for me.
I have seen a Dr before who said the way I feel was probably down to having an active 3 yr old (he's 5 now) which didn't make me feel much better. But I'm going to make an appointment tomorrow and ask to go on the pill because I've heard it can help.
Has/ is anyone tried this to see if being on the pill helps with these symtons? Do you think a boost of oestrogen and progestogen will cheer me up? It is starting to effect my marriage and I don't know if it me feeling sorry for myself or my husband trying to pick fights all the time. I seem to be stuck on a rut and it's making my husband and myself miserable.
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The Pill and early menopause
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Chicksville007 · 20/07/2014 10:10
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