I just sorta easied it into conversation

no date is set in stone but we are meeting up and he knows, i was giving him the come on, think he was playin hard too get.

A date!

Now how did you manage that?

cool

have fun

It's ok, i have a date, whoop whoop whoop whoop!!!! did i say whoop??

stop it!!!!

dont keep getting in touch with him if he's not calling you or wanting to see you. is one thing to chat as friends - but not to throw yourself at him!

most blokes like a challenge - so the easier you make it the less effort they put in. and dont mean to patronize (me also being a single parent) but considering your cirumstances he should be trying to charm you - not the other way round.

and of course - not everyone is put off by a bunch of kids - is just a case of finding a decent fella, happy hunting

O.k, i need you too stop me talking too him, i am soooooooooooooooo done, and i'm just making a fool out of myslef!!!!!!!!!!!

yeh it could be the kid's, don't blame him

Hi Morning,

No i'm not going too shout, i'm not the shouting type(only if someone hurts my kids)

He is dufuss, but that's what i like about him,he's different from every bloke i have been out with, i have givin up(i think) if he want's me he know's where i am.

morning - this might just be a wild shot in the dark, so brace yourself before you shout at your comp - but have you thought that having a few kids may put him off a bit?

you see, when i first got to know my last gf i didnt just dive in and say 'how about it then?' - tho its what i was thinking. we chatted and got to know each other for probably a month or so before any serious flirting, and then i asked her out - and of course she said yes (this is about my last gf)

was only after we'd been together for a bit that she said she'd never thought she'd want to go out with a single parent.

if youre still keen, then despite having already blurted out your intentions - you could back off a bit and get to know each other - he may now be a complete dufuss

you too, night.