stb Xh had dd yesterday, he brought her back early so he could wash the car (he lives at his mums at the mo btw) anyway I wasn't overly happy about and did suggest he use a car wash or do it at his mums, various excuses made including using dd, so he stayed for a bit I made him a cuppa (i have to say I've been thru hell since he left and have really picked myself up and feel much better about myself ie more confident etc) to cut it short he started flirting with me and if I'm honest I suppose I did a little back mainly because I felt in control.
He then went on to offer a back rub after he saw me rubbing my neck (yes I know) he bathed dd and put her to bed, and the obvious happened we slept together. He is at relate this week alone, afterwards we both sat and said it shouldn't have happened, both questioned why it happened, when I asked him he said well if you aren't with anyone and me neither why shouldn't we f**k I asked if that was his reason and he said no but he was trying to think of something. I asked if he was going to mention it to the counsellor he said yes and then went on to say shall I ring you and let you know what happens and if she says something startling, we have agreed to go to the next session together, a member of my family had words not long ago about the fact that he has slept with me since leaving and how its sending out mixed messages, he agreed said it shouldn't have happened, we were both sober so he can't use that as an excuse (like last time) so I'm confused now, not upset like before but if he knows its wrong why the hell does he do it, we were at each others throats not so long ago
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TLV · 11/02/2008 09:45
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