Well he tried for ohhhhhhhhh approx two weeks to see dd, and now has pulled the 'what about your child maintenance' how can i get it too you.
(background-has bank probs so cant do it this way)
I suggested postal orders b4 xmas, thought that was a great idea.
Now has emailed me, ( have no idea where he got me email) to say he wishes to make the arrangement that I drive and meet him half way, every two weeks to get my money for dd.
HE HAS NOT BEEN bothered about 'getting the money to me for 3 yrs ffs'
Its just cos dd is refusing contact. He hasn't even mentioned dd in this, re me going there to get the money. I always have to read between the lines, maybe he wants to see d in the car?? I have no idea.
anyhow, i have told him its his responsibility to get the money to me. I am NOT putting myself out, when he has never put himself out for his little one's peace of mind or wellbeing.
fuck the money, what r you going to do about building a relationship with your dd??
arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh.
mental.
rant over.
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so is it MY responsibility to drive to meet him to get my maintenance, pmsl, now that dd doesn't want to see him atm?
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pirategirl · 04/02/2008 12:44
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