Big long ramble coming up...feel free to hit the back button now
Its been 8 months since I spilt up with xp. I dont doubt that it was the right decision. At all. Not for a second.
However, I am struggling to find a relationship with him that im comfortable with...
He seems happy to make me cups of tea and make things pleasant for me(this month anyway, quite often he's vile) and rationally I can see that if I do the same for him then the road will be smooth.
But I dont want to, I CANNOT make myself offer him a cup of tea.
I can make him a sarnie if it means he wont be an hour later to see the kids on a school night. But anything extra on top of that that I CANNOT do.
He isnt someone I would choose to be my friend, he a lying slimy cretin.
The girls have also told me that he spends the whole weekend on the phone to his girlfriend and although its none of my business I feel that im losing out on a weekend with them so he can spend time with them...buts hes NOT!
I want to be in a place where his existence means nothing to me. But im not.
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charliecat · 04/02/2008 10:36
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