Last saw her dad b4 xmas. He had 2 weeks off but didn't bother after this.
Subsequently didn't work for 2 weeks, and still didn't bother.
Was going to come last wekend, but dd said she realy didn't want him too.
He rang tonight, and even tho its not his weekend, which is fine by me, asked if he could come and see her sunday. I asked her and she said ok.
Then after i got off the phone started getting upset. I sat her down and said its ok to be angry, upset, but he's your dad and he'd only be coming here to the house and mummy will behere too.
'I dont' care about him, mummy, even if he hurt himself, i wouldnt care, i never want to see him again'
I have texted him, as his phone was off, to say I have tried, that i have gone thru it with her, even to the point of saying well what if he comes to the door and you have a little chat, with me there, and see how he is'
no chance.
I just cannot force her, however bad that sems, i feel guilty, almost that i am not just laying down the law and saying well he's coming, cos he has rights, cos he's your dad.
Well, i have been doing thatfor 2 yrs, but since she got to last summer she has been adamant.
thats all. I am just tired of it, tired of myself, being like some broken record. Tiredof being on my own.
She has been so much better emotionally since she's not been seeing him. I make sure I check in with her on how she's feeling but she doesnt seem to care about talking abouthim.
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dd still digging her heels in re contact, just thought i'd say!
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pirategirl · 25/01/2008 19:53
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