Ds is 5 and has never met his dad. I have tried a couple of times to find him but positive he's not in the country anymore. Ds has been asking about his dad on and off for the last couple of years and in the last 6 months or so talks about him often. Whenever he talks about him I tell him as much as I feel appropriate. He hasn't mentioned anything for a few weeks until this evening he told me that when he's older he's going to go to India and Africa to give babies to people who don't have any and that he's going to do this with his Dad. Whilst I live in hope that one day his dad will show up and they can form a wonderful relationship, I'm pretty sure it's not going to happen and don't want to give ds false hope. I just don't know how to handle it, whether to let him think there is a chance that he could turn up one day or be definate that he absolutely will not meet this man (obviously I wouldn't be as blunt as that!!). Any advice?
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mogs0 · 23/01/2008 19:41
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