ok so its me pirate, am i being unreasonable to be really pissed off with the fact that ex has got his gf's dd 9 to ring and ask dd to go to their house

[PirateInaPeartree]

when he still has made little effort himself?

She just rang from his mobile ffs. Ok she as a child must have thought oh cool I will get to speak to little pirate cos I miss her.

Yet the whole story is that in 6 WEEKS he has come and made theprincley effort of spending half an hour with dd.

Thta just put me in a really shitty position, when i thought he'd never be able to make 'me' (stupidly) feel guil;ty ever again for his lack of effort.

If i didn't tell dd the other little girl had rung that would have been wrong.??I think.

By telling her, which i did, that made her upset, altho she did ring back, say hello to her and then ran from the phone when her dad came on.

fuckwit. How dare her try and get round her like this. How lovely for dd to hear them both on the phone.

i hate him.

[coldtits]

Oh how fucking nasty. The idiot. send him a letter detailing the precise emotional effect this has had on your daughter.

[amytheearwaxbanisher]

that is really awful your poor dd

[PirateInaPeartree]

i always think oh he can never surprsie me further, yet he does.

i have just been writing a letter, to my solicitor. I just want it on record now, some how, if that make sense.

I wont be writnig to him, long story but have been down that road too many times with no affect.

I am not able to continue this blank facade much longer tho, I keep thinking of revenge. Altho, i wont do anything, I expcect he's getting his comeuppance, with dd not wnating to see him. Which i tbh, hate, as never wanted it to get this bad.

[XmastimePelvicfloorsandWine]

Oh pirate he has really pulled all the stops out for this one,what an absolute WANKER

xx

[PirateInaPeartree]

Pelvic,

my friend,

me had enuff, me want to emigrate!!!

[PirateInaPeartree]

Just need to vent. Boring vents, I am sick of them myself.

Just spent 2 hrs with a distraught child, the main convo being,

'I hate my life, its ruined' by daddy, 'I love daddy', he cant love me why can't he see me if he says he does'
etc...

me -no answers, again, yes boring same old shite from pirate to pirate child.

god help us sometimes.

[jennypenguin]

Oh your poor dd. My dd1 (10) gets like that sometimes, it's a difficult age to go through this stuff.
How can they do things like that to their kids?
Good luck

[PirateInaPeartree]

Dd is supposed to be seeing her dad at the weekend, but is very miserable about it. I htink he's popping over sunday.

I know she misses him, but doesnt want to see him, and thats something that must be hard to live in, inher head I mean.