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Ex-dh picked up dts today supposedly to take them to the cinema. This was a full day thing, having been given clearance by new bit who is complaining that she won't see them over Christmas. She who has seen them a grand total of 3 times, she who has been seeing him for only a few months (and if you believe that here is another one for you.)
For the past couple of visits he has taken them out on his own and things have gone fine. I have tolerate him and he has not shouted at me.
Today though...it is my birthday in a few days time. He knew I was taking them to see Santa tomorrow (on my own as I have always done even when he was here) and then out to dinner on Tuesday. I had asked specifically for him not to take them to see Santa so I should have known he would then do it.
Not only that but he took them to The Deer Centre instead of the cinema (not a problem at all as long as they had fun) but wait, because she said. Then to top it off her mother works there so they visited her too. WTF? That is over-stepping the mark, surely.
He then started a shouting match when he brought them home, smirking when he told me he had taken them to see Santa. Said he left because he wanted some control in his life, but I never controlled him - quite the opposite - she does though. I know the shouting match, the things he says to me in front of her are all for her benefit - she'll find out what he is really like at some point and hell mend her.
I'm just so fing fed up with his nonsense. He is now throwing a major hissy fit saying he won't be over for Christmas (he wanted to come at 7am because he is going to her parents for dinner and needs to be back at their house early) but that I'll get my money (just so she can hear I'm a money grabbing bitch I suppose, after he bled me dry of course, there is no money to be had!)
Why does he have to be such a bloody swine? And why am I alone this Christmas and not him? There is no justice. And as I said f**k it all to hell!
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TwoIfBySanta · 15/12/2007 19:56
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