Im a lone parent and months ago i tried opting out of going through the ccs as i know that it would cause my ex to get all upset he loses his temper at the slightest thing! i have told them what he is like where police have been involved and he once kicked me while i was on the floor and that he is very bad tempered, so at the moment we are on acceptable talking term just where he is giving me money every week into naomi's bank account i dont even need to see him. only when he comes to see naomi. i recieved a letter saying that they decided against it!!! so now this will cause a whole heap of stress! what if i choose not to still go with what then? why cant they leave it be that he is giving me money?
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another question about child maintenance sorry. xxx
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mommy2007 · 09/12/2007 12:57
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