whats the greiveance process??? i think im at angry

[muma3]

subject says it all . im so angry at him . mutual friend he staying at i faced to phone today , told her how i feel and she is undersatndable. i hate him today . yesterday i wanted him back whats happening to me??

[ladymuck]

Denial, shock, isolation

then Anger

then Bargaining

then Depression

and finally Acceptance

[Dior]

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[muma3]

THANKYOU . DEFINIYLY AT ANGER BEEN THROUGH DENIAL
APPRIECIATE SOMETHING TO LOOK TO AND EXCEPT IM NOT GOING MAD. WILL KEEP THIS AS FAVOURITES. NOT LOOKING FORWARD TO COMPRIMISE OR ACCEPTANCE. MAYBE DENIEL STILL PARTIALLY THERE????

[maltesers]

Its been a year now since i split and i still go through feelings of anger, have been through depression and bargaining. I feel sad at times but try to look forward and remember how badly he treated me and how he will treat his new g.friend the same and think i am better out ot it. But i still (cos he was aggressive 2 me )wish him nothing good and hope he will fall down a very large man hole.. or get burned at the stake....maybe what goes around comes around. Best of luck to all you single mums,,we deserve someone kind and caring.. . . . . . . . Oneday !!!!

[tetti]

I'm going through the same thing,but feel like (touch wood) am past the worst of it.
First I was in denial,or more like in a real state of chock to be honest,then I grieved,went through a real state of confusion,and couldn't get my head arond it all,the came the ánger,and now,6 weeks or so on,I feel like I have come pretty much to terms with it. I started to realise our relationship was not as perfect as I thought it was (when I had my rosetinted glasses on prevíously!). Of course I still love him,but I could never be the person that he wanted me to be,and he would never change either.
I really dk how I'd deal with it if,or rather when,he gets a new girlfriend,but then I'll just have to remember the bad bits,and cling on to the memories of them instead!(it's all to easy just to remember the good times,and get an unrealistic view of the relationship)
It'll get better Sweetie!

[muma3]

im angry right now and need to vent.
my mobile has bust . he has had it cut off for last 2 weeks as i ran a big bill. this due to not having internet and needed to check emails for rabbits i was selling anyway.....

got drunk 2 nights ago and ordered a new sim for my phone. relieved yesterday when they emailed to say it had been dispatched !! whoo hoo i thought , a bit of independance... that would show him !!

got sim today and ever since i put it in phone the bloody effing handset bust. so...

had to phone him to see if i could get it fixed as it is still in contract for 3 months. all in his name of course. he said it would cost "25 excess , so just get a cheap new one" i said fine ill give it to you when i see you then you can sell it once fixed.

i also asked if he could have dd3 for a few hours today as he has had week off and i have had things to sort too.

said he couldnt as he had to go and chose a new car .

argghhh
reckons it is because he cant afford payments which is balls. he consolidated our outgoings and has gone from around £800 to £200 a month 600 savings

he doesnt pay rent now or council tax or gas or water or elec so another saving of 548

he nows pays around 600 including a little something to my friend he is staying with.
he has asked me to pay for the 2 phone bilss250 where the f* am i going to get that?

making out he needed to change his car . i said "just like me you have got bored you dont need to get a new one"

the bastard has gone out tonight with my effing friends bf and bro arggghhhhh i hate him tonight

[muma3]

oh and i have to pay out more but with less money.
my frezzer bust and now my phone life a efiing bloody shitty bitch
i used to think things happen for a reason . i have never done anything to deserve this bloody bad luck

god i cant even cry i have dd1 friend to stay and they watching HSM 2