i applied last september and after waiting 5 months it finally all got sorted in march this year. Juat as first payment was due ex got the sack from his job and so back to square 1.
waited another 4 months for csa to track him down and get him to send in his payments for assessment and finally got my first payment of £160. Comes to August for my second payment and he refuses to pay saying his wages have been reduced.
So he gets 2 weeks to send in his new wage details and he refuses to send them in.
so yesterday csa rang me to tell me that when the went to set up a deduction from earnings with his employer they found out he has only fucking quit his job now!!
now ive got to wait for them to track him down again if they ever do!
This is absolute crap and just a joke. Im already in debt by £270 as thats what the august payment was supposed to be and as i didn't think anything would go wrong i totally overspent that month buying ds loads and going to nice places. Now my debt is getting biggere and bigger because i only just manage to pay all the bills/car/shopping etc with hardly anything to spare.
Cant believe this is happening. He is the worst excuse for a dad i could ever imagine in all my life. He hasn't even seen him in over 1.5 years and he lives less than 10 mins walk away.
i hate him with a passion and i cant wait until the day they track him down. Hopefully it will go to court and he will be ordered to pay out a lump sum. He owes over £1500 and he knows how much i will be suffering. Him and his mum will be having a big laugh about it.
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what my f**Ked up dick head waste of life bastard ex wont do to get out of paying csa payments...
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juicychops · 19/09/2007 13:28
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