Thought I'd start a thread instead of hijacking everyone elses.
This was in the news yesterday about single parents being unable to claim income support once their child reaches the age of 7:
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/uk_politics/6904520.stm
Here is a Mumsnet thread about it from the In The News board:
www.mumsnet.com/Talk?topicid=1372&threadid=358004&stamp=070719080229
I found this web page saved when going through some of my 'favourites' yesterday (it is 10 years old but seems to say that single mothers can do a good job of parenting but the outcome for their children is better if the mother is working):
www.gate.net/~liz/liz/study.htm
I gave up a career a few years ago because the job was making me miserable. I am considering retraining for a new career but I know it will be a tall order in terms of the time and logistics of looking after dd. Money will be an issue too. I don't have any parents alive or family nearby to help me and, in any case, it would mean moving away to go back to university. Is it worth going through all this and, most probably, having to spend a lot less time with dd in the process? Would it be better for me to take a job in an office or try and find one of those term-time jobs, that are like gold-dust, which would allow me to be around for her? Or would trying for a whole new career be worth it in the long run for dd to have a fulfilled Mum? What will I regret most?
(You only have to have a look at the Student Parents part of this website to hear moans and groans about how stessful it is to try and meet deadlines for essays to be handed in while looking after a child!)
I'm getting a bit old for starting again but I think it would help my self-esteem to be more ambitious. As things stand currently, it is as if my ex can just walk away and continue with his life and plans whereas I am stuck with the responsibilities. Why should I give up all my dreams?
I know it's for me to weigh up the options and decide but any thoughts/experiences on this anyone, or on being a single parent and working?
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skyatnight · 19/07/2007 14:52
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