He visited me today to say. This is the first time he has ever come out of his way to talk to me. I knew it was prob on the cards, but it hurts so much, somehow.
TBH in many ways she in welcome to him, he is a selfish man, and is certainly not the person I married. Yet having an inkling, and actaully finding out are two sep things iyswim.
It just seems so bloody sad, when I put so much into our marriage, and into having our child.
He said today that he just desont feel likehe should have ever had our child, that he is not 'child friendly' enuff?? He said of course he doesnt regret it, but that he doesnt connect to her as much as he wishes he could.
I reminded him that he used to connect fine to her, that he carreid her round everywhere with him in the 2 yrs b4 he up and left us.
I said it just seems like youhave forgotten. He lives with his girlfriend and her 2 children, has said he isnt going to have any more children.
I looked at him, after he said he was gettingmarried, and said 'r you mad'?, he said, yeah maybe, I dunno, not sure.
He said he wants this, that he asked her, and my guessis that she has obviously discussed it with him a bit recently.
I just feel so bloody sad, and a bit jealous, whereas I havent been up till now, cos i just never thought he would do it again.
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not such a yo ho pirate, my ex dh has just tld me he is getting married again, i am really cut up
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pirategirl · 17/07/2007 16:54
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