He used to have reg contact with 2 ds but a yr and a half ago after several concerns that he was not looking after them properly, ds1 told me thier dad would leave them alone in house whilst he went to shops, they were aged 2 and 3 1/2. So I told him he could only c them supervised and he said that he wouldnt see them at all then and I didnt hear from him again till about 2 months ago. Went 2 court and they agreed vists should be supervised but ex said he wants his father to supervise. His father left him when he was a child and only been intouch with him the last year or 2 therefore I dont know his father as he wasnt on the scene all time we married. All i know about him is that he used to beat up his partner. Told this to court they said irelevant just coz he hit a woman doesnt mean he will hurt child. Court said they will do a police check on his dad and if it comes back ok he can do it. So will find out when back in 2 weeks. Feel so let down by court a police check means nothing, I wouldnt let a stranger look after my kids just coz they police check ok. Also surely the person supervising needs to be unbiased, I have no gurantee he will supervise he could go off and leave ex 2 it. It is so horrible when court officals who know nothing about my boys decide if a stranger can supervise. Sorry 2 waffle
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