another self employed exp maintenance moan

[pod3030]

ffs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Arg arg arg arg

Emotionally/physically abusive Ex p has been financially abusing me stopping agreed maintenance unless i do as i am told.

so i went to the csa, thinking, 'well, even if it is less, it means regular'. He is self employed, earned £100,000 last year. found out most undeclared, he told them he's earning £12,000. So we have been awarded £29 a week. Very much less indeed. :( Shit.
Whilst he sups champagne, lives in a big house, new car, holidays. I am so sad at the unfairness.

I can't even report him, because the fraud lady said i had been living in the family home whilst he was doing it and it makes me complicit.

I know lots of lone parents survive on less, it's just the bloody unfairness. How do i stop myself turning into a bitter harpy?

[slug]

<a class="break-all" href="https://online.hmrc.gov.uk/shortforms/form/TEH_IRF?dept-name=TEH&sub-dept-name=&location=39&origin=www.hmrc.gov.uk" rel="nofollow noindex" target="_blank">Report him to the Tax office for fraud?

[pod3030]

Thanks slug, i could do it anonymously but it wouldn't come to anything. They need someone willing to give evidence. And as i said, becuse i lived with him whilst it was going on, i would be seen as complicit. It totally sucks ass.