I am sick to the back teeth of STBXH texting me on a Wed and saying "can I see kids on Sat". I have usually made plans.
I have asked him for two years now to send me a three month plan in advance - just so both DC's and I will know where they are and when.
We can and will arrange holidays and days out around his plans, as I think they should see him and his new girlfriend and all her kids and their two new kids together. They are family at the end of the day.
Despite my two being overlooked, shouted at and bullied by the other kids and bossed around by STBXH and his GF (SIL told me how shocked she was at seeing this over Christmas) the DC's seem to enjoy their company.
I also think that they should be allowed to have a sleepover at his place every other weekend - like the DC's ask for - but he only wants them for 2-3 hours on a Saturday.
However as he is a total arsehole, he hasn't seen them for 5 weeks now, as I have stuck to my guns and said no - send me a plan.
I really feel like taking this to a solicitor, am I a loony for thinking this?
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rockpink · 22/07/2014 21:38
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