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Can exh take children away without my consent?

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somersetsoul · 21/07/2014 20:32

Just that really. I have said no for various reasons but have a feeling he is just going to do it. Its in the Uk.

Thanks.

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FeministStar · 21/07/2014 20:39

In practice, yes. In theory he needs a letter giving permission but it's unlikely he would be asked for it. It used to be possible to tell the passport office to put a note on file if he applied for a passport for the children to say they already had one and if he applied for it then to check with the other parent that it was not lost.

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FeministStar · 21/07/2014 20:42

Forgot to add, the best thing you can do is apply for passport yourself and keep it safe. It makes it harder for another passport to be applied for I think.

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financialwizard · 21/07/2014 20:44

As it is in the UK talking to the passport agency won't do you any favours.

In theory he can go anywhere in the uk.

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somersetsoul · 21/07/2014 20:46

Thanks. Even if that takes him a day and night over our agreed contact??

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kinkyfuckery · 21/07/2014 20:57

If he doesn't bring the children back at the agreed time, I guess you could probably report them as missing/kidnapped?

You've got to ask yourself why you'd do that though. Why don't you want them to go with him?

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STIDW · 21/07/2014 21:12

If your ex has Parental Responsibility he has the same responsibility and rights as you so issues such as contact and living arrangements, changing a child's name, decisions relating to important schooling and medical decisions, taking children abroad need to be agreed. However each parent can make day-to-day decisions unilaterally.

It's reasonable for parents to know where their children are sleeping at night but he doesn't need your consent to take a holiday in the UK during "his" contact time and (unless there is a very good reason) it would be churlish not to agree extra contact for a day and night. Generally it's in children's interests to have some flexibility with arrangements so they can spend some quality time with a parent and enjoy a holiday. Remember you may want to take the children holiday and take an extra day or so at some point too.

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FeministStar · 22/07/2014 05:35

Ah, I took to mean that the OP was in the UK not that the holiday would be in the UK.

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