We weren't married. He left 6 months ago, in that time has seen less and less of dd age two. I've requested weekly for him to see her but he has refused. His family have refused. He wanted eow. He can't even manage that and so far only has her a few hours one day e.o.w.
Hasn't had her overnight since he left. She is suffering separation anxiety and is still b.f. He is now saying he wants her overnight. I've said yeah great, when she's weaned and in her own bed and he's had her a bit more often but not right now. He forgets to change her nappy. She comes back with a heavier nappy than a night nappy and she hasn't been fed as she is always starving.
Also said I should be grateful he isn't going for custody! Would he actually get custody? What the hell is he on about? Is it me or does this man need to prove he can deliver on e.o.w never mind full custody.?
What's the time scale and procedure with issues over child contact? He has a solicitor already sorting out financial issues. We haven't touched on contact yet but I feel it coming.
I know he d be granted overnights if it went to court but I feel strongly our dd would be very upset by overnights right now. He used to have her overnight when we lived together and he would regularly text me at work in the early hours saying she was up screaming for me. She still gets like this and is definitely feeling the effects of him leaving.
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GEM33 · 21/07/2014 07:05
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